Empowerment can be difficult to define; yet easy to recognize when it’s at work in our lives. I think of it as the life force that allows me to steer my ship in the direction of my choosing or the ability to accomplish whatever goals or dreams enter into my thought process. Empowerment is vibrating at such a level that there is no doubt in my mind, or anyone else’s, that I am alive with energy, enthusiasm and reveling at my place in the flow of life.
Perhaps another way of looking at empowerment is a belief in yourself so deep that when you have a great idea, a vision if you will, and adversity meets you face to face, you laugh in that face confident you will prevail. It’s asking questions like “why not?” or “what stops me?” in response to the doubters. It’s knowing you can overcome any obstacle even if the world has yet to recognize that in you.
There have been many influences in my life regarding my sense of empowerment. One of the best books I’ve ever read for inspiring a sense of empowerment is QuirkyAlone by Sasha Cagen. I’ve spoken of QuirkyAlone before and it’s moved from being a book to a worldwide movement. It gives us permission to just be ourselves and applauds those who don’t cave to societal pressure regarding relationships, getting married, buying houses or having kids. It trumpets the idea that staying authentic to yourself is really the best way to be and encourages outward expressions of this such as Singelringen the ring for proud singles. Empowerment reminds us that when someone says “Think outside of the box” the response is an enthusiastic “What box?”
Because I love the QuirkyAlone book so much and want to share that with you, I am giving away three copies of the book. To enter just leave a comment answering one or both of these questions:
What does empowerment mean to you?
What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
For extra entries, pimp this contest on your blog and I’ll give you 3 entries. Winners will be chosen by random.org on Wednesday August 6.
Empowerment
Posted by: Vanessa at 8:41 PM on Saturday, August 2, 2008
Labels: Books. Books. And More Books., Everyone loves a winner, Singelringen
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I've answered these two questions on my blog for you, Vanessa.
And thanks again for the Sbux card. I got it today! Woohoo!
Wow, a pretty cool post.
Let's see...
To me, empowerment means setting myself free and letting go. The freedom to just "be".
If I knew I could not fail, I would do all those things in my life that I have been too scared to do (I have my own private list!).
I need to check this book out!
Vanessa, I strongly agree with you that empowerment is becoming a movement.
I wish you would be in Los Angeles August 14th. There will be a very cool fund raiser for the documentary "Seeking Happily Ever After". http://seekinghappilyeverafter.eventbrite.com/
The producer, Michelle Cove says, "The film is about encouraging women to figure out their own happily-ever-after, whether it's staying single, getting hitched, babies or no babies, doesn't matter if you're gay or straight. It's about being our most authentic selves and trying to re-program some of those earliest messages that say there is only one way to go about life."
I've pimped you and answered the questions. Nothing very exciting - but it kept me entertained.....
Vanessa - thanks for writing this! And I am so glad you are doing this contest. If I don't win I might just buy the book anyway!
Empowerment to me is essentially your second question - Not being afraid to live life, take risks, and go after things we want. I am afraid of failing and I know I am staying sheltered because of it. I need to break out!
So, if I knew I could not fail? I would write a memoir AND start some kind of a wine company (who knows what kind? Tours? My own winery? Educational classes? The sky is the limit.
And I am going to pimp your contest right now.
I nominate you spokesgal for the Quirky Alone movement :-) So right on with this post!
I think empowerment means you have no problem going beyond the ridiculous social norms that seem to constrain so many people. And you get more out of life because of it!
If I knew I could not fail, I would quit the day job and do the kind of writing I choose to do: write novels and maybe blog even more!
I'm not really familiar with the QuirkyAlone thing except for what you have previously written. Does it condemn marriage in general or just those who have settled? If it is the settling thing, well, awesome. I think marriage is something you do only if you found the person you can't live without, not just someone to pass the time with.
Empowerment means being able to do what I want without fearing what others will think of me.
If I knew I could not fail, I would never hold back. I would speak all of the words I feel are most important and love and care for others without reserve.
I'm definitely pimping this entry!
what a great post vanessa, and a cool contest.
and if i knew i couldn't fail, i would probably dip my feet into the world of acting. i always wanted to be in the movies or watching them. either way i'd get involved somehow :)
You have made me think, Vanessa.
Empowerment is saying what you mean, all the time. It's speaking truth to power. It's voting. It's choosing a life that would be oppressive to some. It's something I have more of than I use.
If I knew I could not fail, I would have a bunch more kids and homeschool them. And I would cook. And write.
Empowerment is giving yourself permission to enjoy THE MOMENT. This moment is your life. Not yesterday, and not tomorrow. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow may not come. This moment is your life.
Cool blog. I love introspecting. Here goes my entries:
What does empowerment mean to you? Empowerment means assisting, directing and nurturing someone to unearth their natural talents and abilities to use at their fullest potential. It means arming with the tools in life necessary to complete a task, function or purpose so that the core of success exists in an active state so if other help/assistance is needed, its minimal at best.
What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
I would reach back into time, save my mother so that she would be alive today and open up a Eco-Friendly wedding planning & Catering business for the two of us to live out life into old age together.
Hi Vanessa- great post! If I knew I could not fail I'd quit my current job and start the non-profit I've always dreamed of!
I have pimped your contest and responded to your queries on my blog...
:)
To me, empowerment means: being brave and being strong in who you are and your convictions. It's about having the strength to stand tall and know what you want and go after it no matter what.
If I knew I couldn't fail: I would probably be in a different line of work and pursuing hobbies that I really enjoy but are not very "profitable."
It's all about knowing who you are and being able to rely on your inner strength. It's pushing ahead despite fears of failure. It's not so much accomplishing a goal as already knowing what the next step or dream is. And it's knowing when to say no.
My dream is to move to Europe and, well, profession-wise, kind of do the same thing I do now. I can't abandon journalism -- it's part of who I am. But I'd much rather be on the Web side of things than the print side. Of course, there will be a lot of travel time!
Awesome post Vanessa! I am late but definitely going to check out the book. Thanks for sharing.
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